Learn More About Divorce Mediation on Long Island
Frequently Asked Questions
Allow Martha Cahill to provide answers to commonly asked questions about divorce mediation on Long Island. Discover how Long Island mediation services can provide you with the proper tools to reach a positive resolution.
FAQ's
Q. What is the first step?
A. Scheduling a free consultation where the entire process will be explained in detail.
Q. How long does the process take?
A. The mediation process is driven by the parties, you can proceed as quickly or as slowly as you desire. We meet in periodic sessions lasting for one to two hours. It can take as little as a few weeks or as long as a few months.
Q. Is mediation a good fit for my situation?
A. It is if your goal is to resolve issues together rather than fight to win!
Q. What information do we need to share in mediation?
A. It depends on your particular circumstances, before any agreement is signed, I will make sure all parties have all the information needed to make well thought out decisions.
Q. What if we are not communicating at all?
A. If you are willing to try this approach you will discover that even when you cannot talk to each other you may be able to talk to a neutral third party in each other’s presence, from there many possibilities open up.
Q. How much does mediation cost?
A. Significantly less than litigation! I charge an hourly rate and do not ask for a retainer. In the case of mediated divorces, the total cost is usually less than what just one party would have to pay to retain an attorney. Oftentimes, parties share the cost of mediation, making it even more affordable.
Q. Do we need separate attorneys?
A. That is up to each individual to decide for themselves. There is no such requirement. I suggest each person have independent counsel (Consulting Attorney) to advise you as to your individual options and bring that information into the mediation sessions where we can create an agreement tailor made to fit your particular situation.
Q. Can we still mediate, if we are already involved in litigation?
A. Yes! It is never too late to give mediation a try. Often people are able to accomplish more in a few weeks of mediation than they have during months or even years of litigation.